We can all agree that according to social media, 2016 was is hectic year – but how fortunate are we that as early as February, we are able to witness in its raw form, the ideal ways to manage pressure. #Blessed
Thanks to Twitter , humbly presented below are 5 ways to handle pressure in 2017.
1.Expand your vocabulary. It helps you express yourself a lot more accurately. Whether the language is suited for it or not , is irrelevant. Random example : ” We cannot hold imenemene as a role model “. The fact that we heard a Zulu word in an English sentence on national television is no matter at all. Laat dit ruk, sthandwa.
2. According to @SK_MCHUNU , being a nice guy matters. He observers something crucial – despite being shuffled and handled by security, Ndlozi kept a polite smile and maintained some chit chat. Most times security guards will break the rules with you if you provide into ebhandayo and a nice chat. Don’t burn your bridges out of anger. Nobody likes a hot head.
how are you kids Japhta? they good? HEYYYY Marvin, my man. I can’t hear you rn , noise famo. I’ll whatsapp you , yeh? Yehh.
3. You have the right to chuck people out the squad. King Ndlozi said it and we concur. Study groups , stokvel , VIP table at the club , whatever. It’s your house – bakhiphe! Haal hulle uit. Smaller circles move more efficiently anyway.
4. People are not always interested in your aspirations , they just want to know the action plan so when it doesn’t come to fruition, they know where critique from first. Julius Malema exposed that Baleka Mbethe slaughtered a cow ‘ and still got dumped’ . Did she really slaughter a cow ? Is this a malicious conspiracy? We’ll never know – but we’re thinking about it and all that effort just to be dumped. Hectic.
5. If you really , really cannot handle the vibe and the people around you are just not co operating in the way you want – its okay to say what you feel.
Some opt for polite but affirmative expressions such as , ” I’m displeased ” , while others say ” Fuck you ! ” , straight up. People got called dogs in Parliament during the address , ‘coz they know.
Its a dog eat dog world out there.